10 challenges faced when living abroad and how to overcome them

These challenges can vary between different situations, as every experience is unique, but the one thing that is common for everyone living abroad is that all these challenges come as an additional layer to the existing ones. 

The life abroad challenges are just an addition to the challenges of everyday life. This is what makes the challenges even harder. Every obstacle might not look that hard on its own, but it’s the compounding that makes life abroad very challenging for some people.

In this article, we aim to help you understand the top 10 challenges faced by people living abroad. But more importantly, we'll provide practical tips on how to deal with them.

Whether you're already living abroad or just considering the leap, this article is for you. Let's make your international living experience a little easier.

1. Complying with Visa and Residency Rules

Visa and residency rules can be a maze for expats and digital nomads. Each country has its own set of rules and regulations, and it's crucial to understand them. Most of the time the information can be found online, but in the local language that you don't necessarily master yet. 

Non-compliance can lead to serious consequences, therefore, it's important to understand and stay updated on visa requirements and in immigration laws.

Consider seeking legal advice from an expert if needed. There are many expat forums where you can get information and advice, however they might confuse you or give you irrelevant information.  Remember, every situation is different, and only an expert can give you the best advice regarding your situation. 

2. Overcoming Language Barriers

Language barriers can be a real hurdle when living abroad. It's like trying to solve a puzzle with missing pieces. But don't let this discourage you.

It’s not only the fact that you don't have enough vocabulary or you don’t know all the grammar rules yet. The language barrier is as when you feel misunderstood, your confidence is taking a hit as you make a lot of mistakes, and you are wasting a lot of energy trying to translate everything in your head before opening your mouth. 

There are many ways to overcome this challenge. Language courses, private lessons , and even language learning apps can be your best friends. Immersion is also a powerful tool. Try to use the local language in your daily life as much as possible.

Remember, it's okay to make mistakes. They are part of the learning process. With time and practice, you'll be able to communicate effectively in your new environment.

3. Navigating Cultural Differences

Another common challenge expats face is cultural shock. It's the feeling of confusion when you're suddenly immersed in an unfamiliar culture.

Understanding local customs and traditions can be tricky. It's like learning a new dance, where every step matters. But don't worry, it gets easier with time.

The key is to stay open-minded and curious. Don't be afraid to ask questions, to try new things and to put yourself in unknown situations. Embrace the differences, learn from them, and soon enough, you'll find yourself dancing along with the locals. 

Remember, adapting to a new culture is a journey, not a destination.

4. Understanding Local Laws and Bureaucracy

Moving to a new country means dealing with a new set of laws and regulations. It can be a daunting task, especially if the legal system is vastly different from your home country.

Take the time to understand the basics. This includes laws related to housing, employment, and personal conduct. It's also important to understand your rights as a foreigner.

If you're unsure, seek legal advice. 

Remember that asking questions is not a sign of weakness or ignorance, it’s your way to learn.  Knowledge is power, especially when it comes to navigating a new legal system.

Same goes with the paperwork you need to deal with while living abroad. Nobody likes it, but it’s sometimes necessary. Just ask for help if you are not sure how to do something, or if you don't understand. 

5. Dealing with Homesickness

Homesickness can hit hard when you're living abroad. It's a longing for the familiar, for the comfort of home, and the support you had. Every stroll in the park, or cup of coffee, can trigger an emotional reaction. This is a natural feeling and it's okay to miss home.

It’s not only the people you miss, but also the feelings you used to have, the traditions and the environment. 

Staying connected with your loved ones can help. Thanks to technology, it's easier than ever to keep in touch. Regular video calls, messages, or even old-fashioned letters and postcards can make a world of difference.

It is also important to try and create a new "home" in your new location. Surround yourself with things that make you happy and comfortable. Create new connections and find a new support system. With time, your new place will start to feel like home too, and will less feel homesick. 

6. Building a Social Network

Building a new social network in a foreign country can be challenging. It's not just about making friends, but also about finding a support system. This is something that is extremely challenging for some people, especially for introverts. Whereas kids find it rather easy to approach another kid and start to play, as adults it's a whole different story. 

Putting yourself out there, presenting yourself to total strangers and starting to create new connections, requires effort, both mentally and physically. It takes time and energy, and it may take you a couple of months, maybe even a year to create some meaningful connections.  

A great way to meet like-minded people is to join local clubs or groups that align with your interests. Also, consider joining expat communities online and in person. They can provide valuable advice and support.

Remember, it takes time to build meaningful relationships. Be patient with yourself and others. 

7. Managing Taxes and Finances

Understanding a new economy can be a daunting task. The cost of living, exchange rates, banking systems and taxes can all be different from what you currently know. 

Start by creating a budget based on your new cost of living. This will help you manage your finances effectively. Also, familiarize yourself with the local banking system. It's important to know how things like transfers, withdrawals, and payments work.

Asking for advice regarding your taxes can be very helpful.  You might not be aware of everything you need to know. With the right advice, you can prevent cases like double taxation, or not paying where you actually need to pay. 

Remember, financial stability is important to feeling safe and secure abroad. So, take the time to understand your new economic environment, and follow the advice of experts in every field.

8. Accessing Healthcare Services

Healthcare is a vital aspect to consider when living abroad. The quality and accessibility of healthcare services can vary greatly.

It's important to understand the local healthcare system. This includes knowing your rights but also where the nearest hospitals are, how to book a doctor's appointments,  and how to access emergency services.

Consider investing in a good health insurance plan that covers you internationally, at least until you get your local insurance settled. This can help alleviate any concerns about potential medical costs. 

It might take you some time to get your local insurance. Make sure you have the documents you need, and be patient. 

Remember, your health is super important, especially when you're far from home.

9. Adapting to the Education System

If you're moving abroad with children, education becomes a key concern. The education system in your new country may be vastly different from what you're used to.

Researching schools, understanding the curriculum, and helping your child adapt can be challenging. International schools can be a good option, offering familiar curriculums and a diverse environment. However, these have their own drawbacks. They are usually very expensive, not available in all the cities, and might make the integration in the country a bit harder. 

Remember, it's not just about academics. It's also about helping your child integrate socially. Life abroad is a great opportunity for kids to broaden their horizons, learn a new language, get to know different cultures and experience a different way of living. 

Encourage them to make friends and participate in after-school activities. This can make their transition smoother and more enjoyable. Use it as an opportunity for you as we, to learn about the culture, through the education system.  You can learn together with your kids new songs, poems, history, geography and more.

10. Your Own Wellbeing 

Living abroad often means dealing with uncertainty, pressure and stress. This can impact your mental and emotional state, and your overall well being.

It's crucial to understand that it’s a journey, and it takes time to adjust to everything. Give yourself enough time to adapt to the new environment and don't add more pressure on yourself trying to do everything faster. Be kind and compassionate toward yourself. You have length challenges, don't add to it your own judgment and negative self talk. 

Remember, your life abroad is much more than just struggles and challenges, and it’s up to you to choose to see it that way. 

By taking care of yourself, both physically, mentally and emotionally,  you will be able to create a life abroad you will enjoy living.

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Embracing the Journey

Living abroad is a journey filled with challenges and rewards. It's about embracing the unfamiliar, learning new ways, and growing as an individual. Remember, every challenge faced is an opportunity for growth. So, keep an open mind, stay adaptable, and enjoy the enriching experience that living abroad offers.

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By: Gal and Maayan Szmelcman - Founders of Smoozitive

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About Smoozitize

Gal and Maayan are the founders of Smoozitive and Creators of SYLA app.  Among other things they are dreamers, doers, sisters and of course living abroad.

They strongly believe that moving and living abroad can and should be the experience we dream of rather than the one we fear. They dedicated their business (and their time and energy) to make sure that happens for as many people as possible. Smoozitive is where you start creating a lוfe you actually enjoy living, no matter where you are.

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